But that's the natural course of this, isn't it? The intimacy? If we do it, and then have to worry about it, is it still intimacy, or it just sex? I honestly don't know how to answer that.... I mean on the one hand, if you do love someone, and you're being intimate in that way, than, you're not worried about what may come. But if you are worried about it, and you're doing it anyway, than, you're just having sex for the hell of it.... *was already sitting down, but just for emphasis gets up, paces a bit, and sits down again*